We waste so much energy trying to cover up who we are when beneath every attitude is the want to be loved, and beneath every anger is a wound to be healed, and beneath every sadness is the fear that there will not be enough time. When we hesitate in being direct, we unknowingly slip something on, some added layer of protection that keeps us from feeling the world, and often that thin covering is the beginning of a loneliness which, if not put down, diminishes our chances of joy.
I first saw this quote on Courtney Adamo’s Instagram feed (her feed is stunning and so inspiring, one of my favs) and I can’t get it out of my head, so thought I’d share it with you. The quote is from the book “The Book of Awakening,” and I think it’s going on my long list of books to read next.
In our world of social media, perceptions, and public personas, I found this the most refreshing and challenging reminder to be more present and less quick to put up the walls and masks. To live more authentically and think about my response, post, picture, etc. before putting it out there. Am I layering, filtering, protecting myself too much? And for what? I crave the security and freedom that comes with living honestly and unafraid and deeply admire/envy the ones who pull it off.
My friend Kim generously gave me a bundle of these incredible products this past Christmas and I can’t believe I’m just now getting around to sharing them with you. They are miraculous. Ever since approaching thirty I’ve become more selective and careful about the skincare and makeup products I put on my skin. I’m always on the lookout for new products that are truly all natural, and organic. So when Kim showed me S.W. Basics and I saw the list of 4-5 ingredients front and center on the bottles, I was floored. Not only are the products completely natural, all ingredients I can recognize (coconut oil, rose water, tea tree oil, etc.), but they work! I have fairly sensitive skin and my skin has never felt or looked better since using these products.
And that’s what makes S.W. Basics stand out. They make all their products from scratch using only whole, high-potency ingredients. Here is an excerpt of their story…
For us, less isn’t just more; less is everything. We’ve found that if we stick with only absolutely essential ingredients and don’t add a bunch of extra stuff, we don’t need to put a hundred things into our products. Using fewer ingredients means more potent skincare. We don’t water it down with cheap synthetics or exotic fillers. It also means that our products are more likely to be safe even on the most sensitive skin. That’s why everything we sell only has 5 ingredients or less. And they still make you look amazing and smell pretty.
Above are a few of my favorites from their line of products. That moisturizing cream will knock your socks off. I’ve been using it on my face (morning and night before I go to bed) and even all over my belly and my skin feels so hydrated and my belly not so itchy! I’ve noticed less breakouts since using their products too! I can’t recommend enough. Next I want to try their oil serum, which sounds like a game-changer.
BONUS: I just learned that S.W. Basics are sold at Target now too!!
I came across a new favorite magazine, Darling, not too long ago and had to share. It is a magazine about and focused on women, in the most refreshing, honest way. It challenges cultural ideals of beauty, questions its exaggerated importance, and sees beauty in every type of woman. None of the women featured and pictured in this magazine are altered or photoshopped in any way. How amazing is that? It’s super inspiring. I’d highly recommend.
Though we’ve had amazing weather around here lately, this weekend was decidedly wet and blustery. But when you have a three year old, cabin fever gets real, real fast. So we didn’t let the rain stop us and ventured out to a new, lovely tea spot not too far from our house.
It is such a beautiful spot. Everything is clean and sparse and gorgeous. Not everyone finds a sparse aesthetic very inviting but oh how I do. Maybe even more so after having a kid. All those clean lines and no clutter puts me at ease instantly. They also have the best magazines like this one I’m currently obsessed with. I have a feeling I will be back there…maybe with just myself next time :)
Eleanor drew with Papa and watched him too (one of her favorite things to do), while I read a bit (toddler interrupted reading, mind you). And we all enjoyed some delicious tea of course. It was really wonderful to just rest and be together.
Daniel and I were also able to get out for a date night, which was much needed. We followed the best advice and went to a movie before going out to dinner. That way you’re not falling asleep during the movie and can talk about the movie afterward over dinner. We saw Birdman, which we really liked. Thought-provoking, incredibly well-acted, artistic, and the cinematography was super different, but interesting. We went out to eat at Kachka, a newish Russian restaurant that was delicious. If you go, make sure to get the borscht and sour cherry dumplings—to die for. Also, the vodka flights are a must too. Though I can’t really give a review, my husband really liked it and I watched enviously across the table. I will definitely be going back after this baby is born :)
And lastly, a few pictures of the most epic post-nap hair you’ll ever see and apple snacking/being a goof :)
Hope you’re weekend was lovely , and happy Monday! We can do this! xx
“I never felt more beautiful than when I was pregnant, because it wasn’t about me. The whole purpose of my body was no longer to fit into a sample size. It was to nurture another being. So I always felt great, no matter what I was wearing.” –Amy Adams
Being pregnant can be both incredible and hard, in so many ways and on so many levels. One of which is the changes your body undergoes. There are moments when I marvel at my body, what it’s doing, and what it’s capable of. And other moments it’s…hard. I feel large and limited and not terribly pretty. I don’t like those times and am not proud of them. Because Amy Adams nailed it. The insecurities that creep up in me about my changing body are based on outright, mostly cultural, lies. Pregnancy is nothing short of miraculous and I want to see our society start to value women and mothers as givers and supporters of life. Think about how much would change for you and me and our daughters if we viewed women like that.
Anyway, I’ll get off my soapbox. Just really needed to say all that.
In my daily attempt to value myself and see the truth about how I look right now, I have been making sure to get dressed (most days) and care for myself in that way. I decided to start up a maternity style series like I did when I was pregnant with Eleanor and hopefully inspire any other pregnant mamas out there to get dressed and be proud of yourself and the changes your body undergoes to make another human!
One of my favorite, go-to pieces in this pregnancy has been…
I saw this survey the other day and remembered how much fun my nerdy self loves filling them out and reading them. So I filled it out and decided to share it with you. What would really make my day is if you filled it out and left in the comments (pretty please!)….
So excited to finally be bringing the beauty secrets posts back and am pleased to kick it off it again with my beautiful friend, Kim! Kim lives in Portland with her husband, Will, and does skin and make-up as a professional. She is the proud-owner of Klover Beaute, a beauty lounge that provides spa services including eyelash extensions, special occasion hair and makeup, as well as waxing, facials etc. That’s right, book your next self-care/indulgent spa day with this lady! Since she is a skin and make-up guru and a super babe, I had to ask her what some of her secrets are. Read on for the painful yet so-good-for-your-skin thing she does right before getting out of the shower (I tried it the other morning and lasted about 2 seconds. Biggest baby over here), a new product she made and is selling herself that I’ve been dreaming existed for years (I will be purchasing one ASAP!), and a few AWESOME beauty moments that she deems regrettable…
Here on the west coast it is looking and feeling more and more like spring (weeeeeeeeee! And my deepest, sincerest apologies east coast…)! I have never been more happy to see sunnier days, even if it’s still hitting 35 degrees come nightfall. So, if you’re anything like me, you’ve been dreaming of Spring for a long time now and above are a few things that have gotten me even more excited for spring to get here…
Since I hit the halfway mark in my pregnancy with baby #2, I thought it was about time I share some of my go-to wardrobe essentials that have been saving my ever-expanding self these days.
Though I have been able to wear most of my normal clothes still (Other than pants, I was pulling out the maternity jeans at like 13 weeks this time around!) and plan to do so as much as possible, I have found that since my pregnancy with Eleanor leaps and bounds have been made in the maternity clothes department. Amazing brands like this one make clothes women can wear before, during and after pregnancy which is just brilliant. It’s not as painful to spend money on clothes you know you will be able to wear longer than 9 months!
Below are seven pieces I’ve been living in and helping me feel put-together and pretty during my second trimester…
Of course I’ll hurt you. Of course you’ll hurt me. Of course we will hurt each other. But this is the very condition of existence. To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter. To become presence, means accepting the risk of absence.
– The Little Prince